The Ten Commandments of Networking

The Importance of Networking with Other Leaders

PART 4

So, how do I do this networking thing?

I’m glad you asked. Here are the Ten Commandments of Networking: 

1. Think Win/Win. Any relationship that God is a part of is mutually benefiting.
2. Lead by asking questions. (Come prepared with written questions.)
3. Think about the other guy first. What can you do to help him or her?
4. Listen more. Talk less. (Be quick to hear and slow to speak.)
5. Be a Giver. Find something of value that you can give away.
6. Avoid talking about politics and theological differences. You can learn from anybody, regardless of his or her theology.
7. Turn lunchtime into the most productive hour of the day.
8. Don’t be afraid to ask for help? My Mom always said “the worst they can say is no”.
9. Give people space. (Don’t be too clingy.) Meet somebody new and then meet somebody else.
10. Get outside of your circle. The body of Christ is a bunch of little circles. If you get to know someone in a new circle he or she can introduce you to many new friends. 

Sometimes meeting new people can be a little scary, but the benefits are out of this world!

Some of the Benefits of Networking:

• Make Friends with Like-minded people
• Learn New Ideas
• Stirs up your Creativity
• Feels good when you help other people
• Helps you think outside of your box
• Helps you advance your career and the careers of others 

What are you waiting for?

• Make a list of people you want to meet.
• Text somebody and invite them to lunch.
• Decide which conference you want to attend.
• Start networking today!

Don't forget to check out all the other parts on the Importance of Networking with Other Leaders 

Part 1, It's all about who you know

Part 2, How do I get started?

Part 3, How I met my good friend, Jim Wideman